Comments on: D.I.V.O.R.C.E.

By: Meliza

Meliza — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 03:25:23 +0000

To save a marriage think that the most important is a serious dialogue..

By: Max the Micro Niche Finder

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By: I don’t sell bullets and I don’t sell crack | A Free Man

I don’t sell bullets and I don’t sell crack | A Free Man — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 05:05:43 +0000

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By: SSG

SSG — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 13:19:47 +0000

Sorry folks, still getting round to the fact people read my blog (thank you all for your comments!) and I realised it’s probably rude of me not to reply.
@ A free man. It was a black jeep dammit. How else did you fit all my crap in it. Also you may not be married but you’re mr and mrs. err, yeah. And Arizaphale is better than you. just deal with it.
@Arizaphale, keep commentating and annoying Afreeman, love it! Also I agree with what you said, you don’t need a ring to be commited.
@Helene, your link dont work so I don’t know who you are or where you’re from, but thanks for the big-up!
@FGIN, yeah, choosing happiness it the best option. Sorry bout the red monster, they get picked based on your email address or url or something, you can upload your own at http://en.gravatar.com/ like me and Jan so anywhere you post you have a pic, if they are enabled!
@Jan, hahaha! Yep, maybe our exes will be friends.
@24atHeart, yeah, what are the right reasons? At the time I felt I was getting married for the right reasons, but now I realise I was being a fruitcake. So we don’t always know they’re mistakes til after we make them…

By: Twenty Four At Heart

Twenty Four At Heart — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 04:03:36 +0000

Well written post. I think most of us get married without always having the right reasons. People marry so young if you think about the average lifespan. It’s truly amazing anyone stays married for life if you think about it!

By: Jan

Jan — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 13:31:12 +0000

Been there. Done that. With children, to boot. You’re not alone in marrying for the wrong reasons.

There’s nothing like divorce for finding out who your friends REALLY are.

And yes, you can have moved on and still think he’s a dickhead. That’s about the kindest thing I could call my ex.

By: Florida Girl In Sydn

Florida Girl In Sydn — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 10:56:58 +0000

Wow, that little red monster that is apparently now “me” is quite cute and disturbing at the same time.

If I keep leaving comments will I be a top commenter? Should I give it a go?

By: Florida Girl In Sydn

Florida Girl In Sydn — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 10:55:56 +0000

Congratulations on your divorce– is that inappropriate??

Ok, how about–
Congratulations on the new path you are about to embark upon.
That sounds mo better.

I’m sure getting divorced is not easy…
but it is a hell of a lot easier than being miserable and unhappy indefinitely.
So congratulations on choosing happiness.

By: Helene

Helene — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 16:55:14 +0000

Studies have also shown that men suffer more from depression after divorce than women. Many women feel liberated and alive again, after they lose the extra dead weight (the ex).

We all make mistakes, the best thing is you made a tough decision to live your best life possible! Kudos to you!

By: arizaphale

arizaphale — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:28:15 +0000

hahahahaha!!!! I am the top comment leaver! Get over it AFM. hahahahaha

Now to serious matters.

This is the second time in a few days I have heard one of the AFM duo correct someone on their marital status. I say it is semantics. If you love unselflessly, have babies together and plan a future…makes no never mind that you never bought the matching serviettes and place holders. Not to say that we wouldn’t all be delighted by the prospect of a party, but if that is the case I think they have things in the right order.

You and I SSG on the other hand, may have done it for all the wrong reasons; but it makes us what we are today and fades into history more quickly than you can imagine.

Second time around is definitely an improvement. Just try to find someone without children. Just saying.